Re: Post your good/bad deals here!
Posted: Tue May 07, 2019 10:01 am
Dick Butter Nuts wrote:Great deal with Yarbicus!
Excellent trade with the Dungeon Master aka Dick Butter Nuts.
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Dick Butter Nuts wrote:Great deal with Yarbicus!
Devin wrote:Ope
MikeO wrote:Last fall, I posted a non working Randall RG-50TC chassis for free in the classifieds. Tortuga PM'd me that he's wants it, so I get his address and ship it to him. Between the size and weight, and the fact that I'm on the east coast and he's on the west coast, it ended up being about $80. I let him know that he didn't need to cover the entire thing, but that if he could Paypal me something to help cover it that would be great. He agreed and I sent him my Paypal address.
Two months later I still hadn't seen anything from him or heard from him. He didn't reply to PM's and I honestly was worried that something happened to him. Eventually he drops me a PM, says he couldn't Paypal me any money because he didn't have my Paypal address, even though I had forwarded it to him. I said, no problem, sent him my Paypal address AGAIN, and mentioned that if he just wanted to send me a couple of preamp tubes instead that would be fine. He agreed to send me two 12AT7's and two 12AU7's (I only asked or one of each, but he insisted he would send me two of each) so I gave him my physical address. Needless to say, they never arrived. Now he is straight up ghosting me and refusing to answer the last PM that I sent him, even though he's still posting on a regular basis.
After 6 months, I'm done being polite, I'd rather settle this with him, but he isn't even man enough to reply to a PM anymore, so I just want to post the story so that people know not to deal with him because he's not even remotely honest, decent, whatever word you want to use. I've dealt with countless forumites and never had anything close to an issue, and try to be as accomodating as possible, but it really seems like the fact that I've been so patient and polite is why he's just plain blowing me off. Some people only do the right thing when they know someone's going to whoop their ass if they don't.
That is all.
Tortuga wrote:MikeO wrote:Last fall, I posted a non working Randall RG-50TC chassis for free in the classifieds. Tortuga PM'd me that he's wants it, so I get his address and ship it to him. Between the size and weight, and the fact that I'm on the east coast and he's on the west coast, it ended up being about $80. I let him know that he didn't need to cover the entire thing, but that if he could Paypal me something to help cover it that would be great. He agreed and I sent him my Paypal address.
Two months later I still hadn't seen anything from him or heard from him. He didn't reply to PM's and I honestly was worried that something happened to him. Eventually he drops me a PM, says he couldn't Paypal me any money because he didn't have my Paypal address, even though I had forwarded it to him. I said, no problem, sent him my Paypal address AGAIN, and mentioned that if he just wanted to send me a couple of preamp tubes instead that would be fine. He agreed to send me two 12AT7's and two 12AU7's (I only asked or one of each, but he insisted he would send me two of each) so I gave him my physical address. Needless to say, they never arrived. Now he is straight up ghosting me and refusing to answer the last PM that I sent him, even though he's still posting on a regular basis.
After 6 months, I'm done being polite, I'd rather settle this with him, but he isn't even man enough to reply to a PM anymore, so I just want to post the story so that people know not to deal with him because he's not even remotely honest, decent, whatever word you want to use. I've dealt with countless forumites and never had anything close to an issue, and try to be as accomodating as possible, but it really seems like the fact that I've been so patient and polite is why he's just plain blowing me off. Some people only do the right thing when they know someone's going to whoop their ass if they don't.
That is all.
All I can say is "guilty"... sucked bad on this one, and that I'm sincerely sorry, Mike. I should have known I really wish I would have declined when you told me you were having it shipped (at considerable $$$ cost), but I let things get away from me.
I have all four tubes here, just need to pack/box them and take them to the shipping place. I'll do that as soon as I get paid on Thursday.
Honestly, this last couple of years has been a big fucking personal nightmare, and I've just been pushing too many priorities to try and get my life back on track. I'm guessing l won't get your friendship or trust back, and I'm really sorry for that.
Tortuga wrote: Honestly, this last couple of years has been a big fucking personal nightmare, and I've just been pushing too many priorities to try and get my life back on track. I'm guessing l won't get your friendship or trust back, and I'm really sorry for that.
GuitarBilly wrote:Sorry to hear about your situations Mike and Steve. I hope both of you know I am here if you ever want to talk about it or even just vent off.. I consider both of you my friends.
I am glad that this worked out because both of you are people I know and care about and I know there is really no bad guy in this deal, just shitty stuff happening to good people.
Hang in there, it gets better.