DjentFarts wrote:Nah man I'm old and married and completely content. Focus on family and music and the rest falls into place. Why bother with the drama that comes from the OPs situation. You can work with attractive women all day long the key is to have your head in the right place and then you dont have to worry about it.
Oh I gotcha man...I must have misread your post then. I thought you were saying, if you were ugly, then you don't have to deal with multiple women...Which I guess would be true, but was just trying to up your freaking self esteem after a depressing comment!
Also, I agree with you completely...I hate drama, and avoid it at all costs...Be happy with what you've got and who you've got in life...Life's too short to complicate with unnecessary BS...as much as our juniors would like to say otherwise
It's all good man! I never aligned myself as a pretty boy type but yeah the drama isn't worth it. It's like mapz. Life becomes a whole lot easier when you learn to be content and focus on improving whatcha got instead of jumping on to the next "greatest thing"
Sasquatch wrote: I texted her intially but in person told her I was sorry for throwing so much at her but not sorry for telling her that I was in love. She said dont be sorry and that everything is all good. I was so relieved bc I thought I was going to have to drive my motorcycle into a tree. She is awesome and I feel like I have a great friend that I care for. She has asked me at times "where were you when I got married?"
Anyway, really awesome to love someone as a friend and have them feel the same. I think recently being a dad and realizing my mortality, I want to let people around me know how I feel.
Anyway, good song writing material.
You're setting yourself on a terrible path by being her "friend." I hope I'm wrong but these type of "friend" situations don't generally end well.
Out of curiosity, how would it make you feel if your wife was in a similar situation?
Sasquatch wrote: I texted her intially but in person told her I was sorry for throwing so much at her but not sorry for telling her that I was in love. She said dont be sorry and that everything is all good. I was so relieved bc I thought I was going to have to drive my motorcycle into a tree. She is awesome and I feel like I have a great friend that I care for. She has asked me at times "where were you when I got married?"
Anyway, really awesome to love someone as a friend and have them feel the same. I think recently being a dad and realizing my mortality, I want to let people around me know how I feel.
Anyway, good song writing material.
You're setting yourself on a terrible path by being her "friend." I hope I'm wrong but these type of "friend" situations don't generally end well.
Out of curiosity, how would it make you feel if your wife was in a similar situation?
Thanks Bob. You are a great dude and guitar player. Like this thread, I think I jumped the gun on the work cougar. I am not going to do anything but I do have a crush on her but I gotta keep it in check. Just more or less wanting to know who else is out there facing or who has faced the same things. I messed up letting my wall down bc this woman played a large role in my life recently.
Btw, I have never cheated on my wife or even any girlfriend I have ever had. I have never even considered it so I think this is why I am sort I reaching out; reassurance in a time of weakness
Sasquatch wrote:Btw, I have never cheated on my wife or even any girlfriend I have ever had. I have never even considered it so I think this is why I am sort I reaching out; reassurance in a time of weakness
The thing is...some would consider what you did as already taking it too far. "Cheating" doesn't have to just be physical contact and can vary by the people involved in the relationship.
I think most are glad though that you aren't going to follow through with anything though.
Thanks Bob. You are a great dude and guitar player. Like this thread, I think I jumped the gun on the work cougar. I am not going to do anything but I do have a crush on her but I gotta keep it in check. Just more or less wanting to know who else is out there facing or who has faced the same things. I messed up letting my wall down bc this woman played a large role in my life recently.
All of us married guys encounter hot women that cross our paths. often times they're even flirty or will full on pursue you. It's the self restraint and realization of what can bad come of it that sets the men apart from the boys.
Chalk it up to a lesson learned and just make sure you really learned something from it. You wife and daughter definitely deserve it and so do you. No good can come from these type of situations, unless of course, you're single.
I've been married since 1989 so trust me, I know what temptation looks like and it's an ugly beast regardless of what it may seem to be at the surface.
Verily, for a certain cure for this awkward malady is within thine grasp!
Thee must "polish thine loinsword" as erotic fantasies of this wench revel within thine mind. Forsooth, 'tis essential that thee perform'eth these acts of self-pleasure numerously, in succession, and without ye aide of lotions to glide ye maws across ye "albino stogie"!
Thee must continue to pump'eth thine "slacks squirt-gun" until thine flesh hath been rubbed raw! (Be prepared lad, for a fullsome bounty of socks may thee enlist for this wankery)
Hence her very visage shall serve'th as a bitter reminder of thine aching "pants pole" and thou shall long for this wench nevermore!
Ye Black Knight wrote:Verily, for a certain cure for this awkward malady is within thine grasp!
Thee must "polish thine loinsword" as erotic fantasies of this wench revel within thine mind. Forsooth, 'tis essential that thee perform'eth these acts of self-pleasure numerously, in succession, and without ye aide of lotions to glide ye maws across ye "albino stogie"!
Thee must continue to pump'eth thine "slacks squirt-gun" until thine flesh hath been rubbed raw! (Be prepared lad, for a fullsome bounty of socks may thee enlist for this wankery)
Hence her very visage shall serve'th as a bitter reminder of thine aching "pants pole" and thou shall long for this wench nevermore!
Ye Black Knight wrote:Verily, for a certain cure for this awkward malady is within thine grasp!
Thee must "polish thine loinsword" as erotic fantasies of this wench revel within thine mind. Forsooth, 'tis essential that thee perform'eth these acts of self-pleasure numerously, in succession, and without ye aide of lotions to glide ye maws across ye "albino stogie"!
Thee must continue to pump'eth thine "slacks squirt-gun" until thine flesh hath been rubbed raw! (Be prepared lad, for a fullsome bounty of socks may thee enlist for this wankery)
Hence her very visage shall serve'th as a bitter reminder of thine aching "pants pole" and thou shall long for this wench nevermore!
This post now concludeth!
Cameron Amps wrote:He's right....I think VTMs sound great....go get one. No nos tubes needed.
Ye Black Knight wrote:Verily, for a certain cure for this awkward malady is within thine grasp!
Thee must "polish thine loinsword" as erotic fantasies of this wench revel within thine mind. Forsooth, 'tis essential that thee perform'eth these acts of self-pleasure numerously, in succession, and without ye aide of lotions to glide ye maws across ye "albino stogie"!
Thee must continue to pump'eth thine "slacks squirt-gun" until thine flesh hath been rubbed raw! (Be prepared lad, for a fullsome bounty of socks may thee enlist for this wankery)
Hence her very visage shall serve'th as a bitter reminder of thine aching "pants pole" and thou shall long for this wench nevermore!
Ye Black Knight wrote:Verily, for a certain cure for this awkward malady is within thine grasp!
Thee must "polish thine loinsword" as erotic fantasies of this wench revel within thine mind. Forsooth, 'tis essential that thee perform'eth these acts of self-pleasure numerously, in succession, and without ye aide of lotions to glide ye maws across ye "albino stogie"!
Thee must continue to pump'eth thine "slacks squirt-gun" until thine flesh hath been rubbed raw! (Be prepared lad, for a fullsome bounty of socks may thee enlist for this wankery)
Hence her very visage shall serve'th as a bitter reminder of thine aching "pants pole" and thou shall long for this wench nevermore!
Ye Black Knight wrote:Verily, for a certain cure for this awkward malady is within thine grasp!
Thee must "polish thine loinsword" as erotic fantasies of this wench revel within thine mind. Forsooth, 'tis essential that thee perform'eth these acts of self-pleasure numerously, in succession, and without ye aide of lotions to glide ye maws across ye "albino stogie"!
Thee must continue to pump'eth thine "slacks squirt-gun" until thine flesh hath been rubbed raw! (Be prepared lad, for a fullsome bounty of socks may thee enlist for this wankery)
Hence her very visage shall serve'th as a bitter reminder of thine aching "pants pole" and thou shall long for this wench nevermore!
This post now concludeth!
"so um yeah, I tried that... and I still want to plow the bitch. Now what?"
